binarY..

    I have been.. always/am.. behind, understanding the mathematical calculations in life..as in a movie..an eminent artist states..life/cosmos.. runs on precision..and.. mathematics/numbers..determines..the.. precision/timings..of.. Once existence..without which everything is zerO..so true to his statements..What is life in this era of advancements, without mathematics..two binarY numbers, fascinates me sometimes..1 and 0..without which,my present/current communication media is nullified..computers, which after the invention of the wheels,another zerO..changed the dimension how people trade/think..runs on two digits..1 and 0..Why not 2/4?? On which the present world in short runs/survives..in all sense/aspect..equated..to.. existence/survival.. in this era of adaptability/acceptability/likability/dependability.

  What  is the highest number which is divisible?? I wonder..it is infinity..and the smallest, countable number in its full..visible/tangible.. sense..its 1..as..1/1=1..hum!! like wise.. 0/0=0.. These binaries have some meaning/relevance then in this universe/cosmos..what could that be?? The religious order says..there is only one God,be it per.. Hinduism/Zoroastrianism/Buddhism/Judaism/Islam/Christianity..all attributed to one..'all streams lead to one'..and our existence linked by..all.. is to zerO..out of nothing/zero..'A'.. word/part..turned to flesh/life..that is.. i/we/us..referred to..in.. the holy books..being followed and still practiced by..The majority billions in our planet of this cosmos..of.. unknown.. limitations/understandings..all life attributed to.. 'A'=1.. being..out of..all derived/created..my ignorant mind sometimes makes me think/question..why are we then..special/unique..to.. all the beings/creations?? being attributed.. to thyself.. in image/self.. to my teachings installed within my limitations..
  The developments made out of the wheel..to.. the computers running on.. 0 and 1..has a logical reasoning..an era.. where the satellite,which is man made, control/controlling.. voice/distance/account/imagination..why not then..'A'.. super/divine.. being/creator..not have a master control over all living creations..and have..'A'.. precise/nano..account.. information of all its creations?? As we homosapiens are.. aiming to/striving to.. make/centralise/simplify/unify..all data's available .. to a single format/platform/database/usage..for.. simplicity/accountability..which is their ultimate destiny/dream.

  Having said this, my mind fly..to.. some basic questions/fundamentals..encountered daily by current humanity..Why do we strive for 'A' monogamous, personal relationship/political ideology..which is acceptable and proven sustainable, no matter what, for 'A' final.. good result/outcome..in all respect..to cut short/rather than running around the bush..in personal life,man and women,that is 1+1=1?? becomes only 2?? 1+1=2?? 2=offspring(s)/kid(s)..if the balance is tilted..what?? 2/2 becomes 1,and that one is non divisible..as an atom/quark/lepton..in like manner.. be it in separation/unification..in separation/divorce..caused by opportunity/circumstances/ideology/choice ..being triggered by these factors as .. economics/hardships/freedom,liberation or independence/nothing..in this process..the outcome/bi product of 1's..is shaped by the 1's choice..in terms the destiny..mental/social..stability/attributes..written/sketched..by the 1's actions/deeds..The past generation had mostly a single responsibility/assignment/consignment/objective.. added to 'A' single individual..and being understood/accepted/imbibed/attributed to the second individual..with the passage of time/history..has lead to multiplicitation/catastrophes..where the balance..of.. scale/equilibrium.. tilted/shifted..and got homogenised.. the current homogeneous system  once imbibed/absorbed got assimilated into a heterogeneous system..which as long as, in a solution form/format remains intact, but separates out with time, if in a suspension format..in simple chemical/chemistry terms..so the binding agents used in a solution/suspension are..love/respect/acceptability/ approachability..and the dividing factor/agent are..anger/ego/pride/arrogance..as if the relationship is.. bridged/compiled.. up.. as in a suspension, mostly in the case..of.. love/arranged..relationships..it has to be constantly, shaken to homogenise, depending on the nature of the individuals involved and environmental factors affect/affecting..their.. stability..unified by..tradition/religion..in majority of cases..and in a solution situation its a matter of.. precision/timing.. in short luck/karma.. works/sustains.. well to time, until unless, supersaturated/misused..to.. the limit.. with a deliberate intention only..in all this.. the basic.. foundatioN/anatomY..of the two parties involved has to be.. understood/studied..mandatory..for sustainability..as..scientifically/holistically as possible..towards once/others..physical/chemical..knowledge/awareness..as the two individuals involved in a partnership are biologically nonidentical..and it thus become very vital, for the homosapiens..to.. understand and learn the mental/chemical.. changes/reactions..happening at each quarter ..of the.. male and female individuals life..which behaves different at different quarters, in once life..as in a male its not always a physical attribute and in the female its not always a nectar producing juicy pot.
As with respect to political contest as briefed above..politics weather.. i/you/we..like or not..is an integral part of this fabricated society..which drives.. once way of life.. to.. a greater degree/freedom..with ..an imbibed..within.. hidden/unconscious.. motive.. instilled/formatted..into every individuals life/brains..for.. 'A'.. unified/common good..again its a factor of 1..or its a matter of 0..led to/leading into..by.. frictions/wars..of misunderstanding/misjudgement/distrust/infidelity..within.. societies/communities/regions/nations..so polities weather it can be classified as a necessary evil/obligation..is 'A' mandatory need..can't be brushed aside as 'A' want..or will hit.. me/you/us.. back on once head.. unexpectedly/surprisingly.. like a boomerang ..if not handled wisely/seriously. Be on guard against 'A' politician/party,who mix.. religion/need..as..it is the 'only' job description of the politician.. to.. fight for the 'common need' of his public.. elected/to be elected..that is..food/clothing/shelter/health..and its ..The.. choice/responsibility.. of the public/law..to safeguard his/her religious views.The 'choice'not to be misguided/mishandled. And there is 'A' fine line of difference between..being.. charitable/just..the latter should be attributed to the divine,and the former to the humans..in taughts/deeds..thus making..him/her.. meeker/humbler/truer..to self.. As my cosmic knowledge/wisdom,is very limited to the quark/lepton of the teachings of 'A' carpenters son,who resided/residing..within.. us/me for 33 years.Who said,"Ask and you will receive,Seek and you will find,Knock and the door will be opened to you".
  I happened to hear,when in fever,the parent of  'A' child,being referred/recommended by the doctor,formulated by the pharmacist, gives medicine to the ailing person..disapproved..for its texture/taste..but forced to take..result..relief/life..not..agony/death..so.. 'A'..value/political..view..is very vital..to believe in.. one/'A'..should not be left for as 'A' choice..within self..being confused for long..being Only made..after given the freedom..of.. choosing and time to maturity..and to remember that in life,one gets annoyed/angry with only 'A' person one cares/loves..not the one in the street..as it is correctly being said..'when you start giving too much importance to some1 in your life,you tend to loose the value in their life'.. pray for that fine wisdom..to.. enlighten self..at.. that juncture/point..of happening and be made realised.. I.. am not alone..there is a person who cares/loves mE.
  So the binary figures 1 and 0 is as complicating as it can be, it only depends, how it is handled and utilised..for good/development..or.. for bad/destruction..as one should not take a sudden/hasty decision/opinion,as the best time to analyse/judge the outcome of 'A' scenario/situation unfolding.. is later/time..and may common  rational sense prevail/rational wisdom prevail..within each homosapiens to make the right choice..be in.. personal relationship/ political decision.. making..utilising the vast knowledge bank of the past/history..to..learning and repeating the same follies/mistakes..and.. rectifying/imposing.. it/them.. only later when burned with..Man should not try to become God..Creator/Destroyer..but should work hard to meet the needs/aspirations.. of.. his/her.. people..limiting the intervention of the almighty for once survival/well being..where may the wisdom of 1 and 0 lead..us.. only towards enlightenmenT

choicE..

    In our era of choice,I am reminded of the things we missed/missing..considers to be, the best part of my/our life..left behind..now..lost.. rushinG/gallopinG/steaminG/propellinG.. ahead in full potential/thrust..towards a disillusioned/misguided..lifE/futurE.. of.. ambiguity/vagueness..where things are loved and people are being used..by trying to be/thinking to be..organic/natural.. is the irony of this  millennium in choicE.
    I am reminded of my legends,to refresh the memory..my/our..grand parents, who are the reason..of.. my/our.. being..in this jungle..of.. uncertain/fabricated/oblique/opaque erA of choicE..beyond a point..now..being controlled by..the..choicE..after a point the choice does not know..what.. the choice is/was?? As being sometimes, mocked by my wife/mother for being..in.. the past/timid,with..an.. attitude/view point.. of the 70's..asked them once, of my curiosity.. What do you expect from me?? from a 70's model hus/son.. the answer was fast/straight..be real to the present..ok!! then, you want me to behave like our kids born in the Y2K generations..with that level of maturity/reasoning..hum!! then a cloud of delima/confusion arouse within their clouT.. ha!!
    I still, miss/cherish.. the hand full..of.. few toys.. I got as present from my parents/relatives..some still intact in its old majesty and glory..dought if my kids will remember.. me/jungle of toys.. they are in now..in this erA..of.. choice/plenty..with ipads/iphones/tabs..replacing personal relationship/touch/intimacy..where personally am drowned..to.. breath and am trapped..within.. this civilisation of unprecedented change/choice..and buy/give.. my kids the same..and see them with.. it.. to me..is now the reality and my choice..advertisements..drives/driving.. the mind/head/heart..where a person has the libertY of Choice..to keep/process..'n'..number of husbands/wives/children's..as it has now become more fashionable/more acceptable/more charitable.. to adopt..than to have.. and to say/proclaim..I am residing/staying..with my steP to my owN..and hide beneath a clouD/clouT..of.. depression/anxiety..sOrry!! We have..very.. well trained graduated.. psychiatristS/psychologistS.. treating/guiding.. us..Who them self are in the same weLL..Degree/University.. guiding us out of the darkness of our being/within.. An Era.. where parents sacrifice..their.. choice of.. food/clothing/being..for.. their kids/children's..making it..milder for.. them to chew/pallate in..than to.. hearing them cry/yell out of frustration..now an easy way to shut their mouth..choice..made with moneY/timE.. 'A'.. decent/soft/easy.. upbringing/life..hiding/masking..the.. reality/taste..of.. life/traditions..and expecting all the best..of.. traditions/flavours.. from their children's.. for/from.. the future..to deliver/give a simple example..when we organise a party..we have kids special and adults special..what is kids special now??non spicy/mild/preserved.. froZen.. juicy chicken breasts/fish fillets..preserved from ice ages..or.. cheese pizzas/kids macs special..just cheese it /beef them up..sOrry..we now have special trained allergic clinics/shots/indigestion tablets/drops..which will take care of them/it..I don't remember getting, such a choice during my childhood days..was lucky, if i got some of my parents choice..and if the point is, made against/brought to light..will be labelled..as.. outcast/primitive..first from.. within home/then society..what is the choice left??..if.. I/we.. want our kids to grow up the way.. I/we.. want them..make milder, similar foods as adults,wash the food of extra spices, for them..give one choice not many..be it..toy/food/life.. and confuse them..or..be ready to eat their choice trained by thyself/absorb living in their choice shown by thyself.. 'if'.. invited..once to their home..as if i/we.. are living.. and inviting.. my/our parents.. with a.. grateful/open heart..to.. my/our home..unless otherwise without a preconceived motive/objective..expect a question from our children..Where were you?? with your parents during their needs/wants??Oh!!they had 10/8/4/2 children's..one amongst them..took care/taking care..as he/she.. was/is.. more liked/attached/got more favours from them..I was put aside/disliked..made my own.. world/future/fortune..hard working ..wow!! What a royal Bluff/Flush..of responsibility/wisdom gained in life..I guess you got practical/sacrificed for us..don't expect that answer from my/our children..actions/deeds.. speaks/penetrates..faster than.. empty.. words/actions/dramas..'just remember that/it'..like a famous Malayalam actor says..will bounce back.. like light rays falling on a surface in modern physics terms.
    I am reminded, of a question, asked to a great eastern,  thinker/philosopher..why don't you dress up like a gentleman..he after a paUse replied..I better focus on..my.. charactor/actions/deeds..to.. my dress..to.. be.. classified/dropped.. into.. the colony of so called 'gentleman'.. So true..to.. where.. I/we..are heading in this era of uncertaintY/clouT..where it is fashionable/acceptable.. to adopt to deliver/to take to give/ to possess to sharing/to duck out to meet head on..in all aspect of life.. equated to.. needs and wants..in.. my/our.. life/within..be it food/clothing/shelter..'as being happy does not mean everything is perfect..it just means.. i/you/we..have found the right tailored medication'
    In a world where..i/we.. run/jog/cycle/row..striving to..maintain/ get/become..A.. member in premier clubs..to show off..once vocabulary skills/dramatic skills/toned body.. but having no time..to.. clean/tidy/organise..once own.. inner self/house/yard..as its all now 'A' stressful.. job/priority..needing ..special..gurus/occasions/helps/guidance's.. is the irony of our present Millennium..and the fine line/wave length..of.. wisdom/understanding..to balance.. the heads/the tails..to the ..past/present.. for.. my/our/their.. future.. is the only key...to an.. evergreen/organic/natural.. Way to/of lifE

pleasE..

    I am inspired, to write based on.. A taught i happened to read,which goes like..'lOve yoUr Job, not your company'..and goes on to explain why?? 'yoU don't know when they stop loving yoU'.. it made/makes me think..very trUe..to some facts in the Corporate world we live in..where accountability.. is.. passed down.. from.. the top..to.. the bottom..and like wise up the stairs..and when a question/dought arises..it is swalloweD/suppresseD..out.. of feAr of the environment one/we are in.. no different to..once/our.. past/histoRy..but..in a different package/wrap/label..Exploitation happened/happening..past/present.. now utilising the fear of uncertainty..being.. created by themselves..out.. of the ignorance/knowledge bank..of.. thyself/itself..a clever game of cheSS played with..the.. pawns/people..in the front..for the..king/queen..now CEO/Executives..with a guideline/rule..to.. move/jump/run..hUm!! A culture of ignorance/submissiveness to inclusiveness feeling created/cultivated within the hierarchy of organisations, in the name of success/target, where the employee is made to feel guilty for what one earns out through their profession conduct/services offered.. is the sad scenario of our current enlightened knowledgeable century. The logic of physics deriving sheer stress/strain exploited now by practical management/managerial models, which looks for the snapping point/snapped point, for a fix/solution focusing on the symptoms rather than the  cause, eventually turning out penny wise and pound ignorant. Which is expected to be avoiding/creating a healthy environment for the under dog/super dog towards their daily challenges/opportunities of elasticity/inelasticity. All at what cost for the present/future needs to be retrospectively scrutinized/understood/undertaken.
    It is unfair, to leave at this point/juncture..without a small example, in a busy store with millions of $'s reaped/made..out of sales on a seasonal basis..run by 2 managers/2 assistant managers..and 20 subordinate staffs to support them..what is the ratio??..ok!! then there are levels over them..to the point of CEO..where the bUck stops..now the sales figures shoot up,within the corporation..as an established superior competitor, looses a crucial financial business client, used by the customers..the customers left with no choice..in this era of choice.. flocks to the optional store..sales graph pikes up..pressure/work load increases for the store..pie grows larger, for the managers/executives/corporation..How does the corporate make the move/play the game?? Strategy/Moves..made by/crafted by.. the bee school executives..oh!! they are only the best brains..from our previous..executives/managers..can completely rely on them for results..or being referred to within..all safe..no pressure..full trust/confidence..our own breed..no worries..please!! what they draft/craft out..cuts the hours of the subordinate staff..for..the managers of each stores..by.. 40 hours per week..and.. tells them to increase sales by 10% and gain 1 hour per subordinate staff.. the managers work..harder..with steroid injections.. injected for pain in the hands/legs..and try to survive/behave..on.. with its support..for a mear now increased bonus, shown as A carrot..on.. a stick..in.. front of the.. donkey/horse/rabbit..known as 'carrot and stick approach'..in biz's world.. The manager after a point.. explodes/bursts out..to his/her superior..he/she points up the ladder.. with their proves of.. graphs/conference calls made/e-mails send..then the bUck reaches the CEO..he looks down and says..do you want to.. surVive/Quit.. then he/she.. states/speaks..out.. in their ..well trimmed/modulated.. charismatic format..its a Corporation..all.. has 'To Corporate'.. with the decision made..for.. its.. survival  in this jungle..of.. fear/uncertainty..his game starts there..feAr injected..to the already injected steroid..meaning..its now time for the managers/executives..to.. add a  mood stabiliser pill/Heart pill..to.. their pain killer steroid injections..to behave..how/what expected?? by pasting a 90mm smile on their face and by speaking out in a calm modulated manner..as the current under a still water is generally..?? ok!! fine!!no stories..we have doctors/pills..to take care of this..be practical..or get lost..then later.. if this move fails.. they say..buy.. the shares of the corporation and grow.. 'with'.. the company..to a majority.. who can't afford..for.. their daily needs 'not' wants..and runs..on.. neck to neck..for.. mortgage/rent/credit card debts..'payment'..and.. see your fruit multiply..in.. 4 to 15 years..after saying ..later.. he/she..goes to a medical store..for.. 'their'.. heart/sugar /allergy /night /mood stabilising pills.. and if not ready..curses the doctor/pharmacist..for not.. prescribing it/keeping ready 'on' demand/time..note.. majority has a shattered black family t..rail to relax/support on..if this again fails..the next move..CEO/Team leader.. is fireD..by unanimous decision..taken by the board members..for the betterment/fUture.. of the.. corporation/its share holders..how/what..manner?? with only a stupendous bonus paid out, signed per his assignment/contract/deed..at the point of their entry..now to be paid oUt..at/for..their.. exiT/S***..per law/get sewed..after few days..just curious..where is our Team leader/Executive..now..Oh!! he/she.. is.. distressing/unwinding out..in his/her..mansion..for.. the next game/opportunity.. in.. Hawaii/Bermuda..who won/who lost?? and ..the/this.. cycle of hierarchy/karma continues..in a different format..now is/in the name..of.. schools/degrees..to family/class.. in the past..and getting into is another story..maintaining it is another story..as mentioned..the show must go on..as a clown..put the mask on..how long/which manner?? Is it worth/Does it make sense?? Now the new buzz word..in..bee schools..is..an holistic approach..slaughter switched to euthanasia..formulated for people..not understanding/feeling..the..pulse/reality.. at ground..or..lost once in the honey/nectar pot..  I am reminded of a statement, made by a prominent ruler..during.. a revolution..which goes like this..'if people don't have bread to eat, let them eat cake'..is how relevant our corporations/rulers are to the majority pawns..
    The fact being, we have abolished/demolished/condemned..terms/usage..of.. phrases/words..as.. Negros/Slaves..stupid/idiot..to..Workers/Layman..F***/S***.. I sometimes wonder..nOw.. don't people like doing this any more ..with the passage of time..needs a pill..for.. basic survival of its species/basic needs to be fulfilled..hum!! or is it becoming tougher with timE/generation gaP??  The reality, is in the pUddIng of our life..i/we..do/see experience..old wine/deeds..in..the new bottle/format..be it..business/political..arena..now it's in the name..of.. competence/democracy..  classic experience , when one enter an aeroplane..just observe/experience..the class system, in its full glory and majesty,separated by curtains of realitY

Head and taiL..

  What/Which.. is more important/greater than/bigger than/ has more relevance.. to.. time/situation..heads/tails..is an important question..which often comes to my mind and confuses/puzzles me..say for example, in a coin.. is head more important than a tail..will a coin survive/have value.. without a tail..is a simple question..and the simple answer is nO.. Then should the tail wag the head/head wag the tail??
and the understanding/knowledge.. to maintain a fine balance.. of its relevance/importance.. is.. termed/called.. as.. wisdom.. of understanding.. of the situation.. unfolding in relevance to the scenario at play/display.
  I have always wondered/found..every situation in life is like a coin..it has a head/tail..as..Synonym/antonyM..like..day/night,,up/down,,joy/sorrow,,optimist/pessimist..every explanation has an equal and opposite.. compelling.. explanation/theorem/proof..and the Wisdom to choose and balance.. in/to.. the correct judgement/resonance..is what I/We..are trying to achieve.. in/within.. our.. skin/being.. is the destiny of our existence.Some thrive/flourish.. some try/struggle..some wade/drown.. in its complexities..is the definition of ..breathing/existence..
  Every prayer has two sides.. silent/loud..every charity, has two sides undisclosed/disclosed ..every feelings, has two sides guarded/open..and what do we all fall for.. the latter.. to.. the former..is then.. the former not relevant?? it is equally relevant..When??The simple explanation is..the latter is to be extrapolatEd/imbibEd into the ..I/Me/Self..and the former to be incorporated.. with.. vigiL/prudancE.. to.. We/Our/Us..and the wisdome imparted.. to a being.. helps to make.. a fine balencing act.. between.. the latter and the former..Individual.. who has fallen, just in the correct grove/resonance.. is the balanced.. person/individual.. so called, the legands of our past/present..timE

2Q..

I like to ask, two questions.. to.. myself..One.. I heard/fascinated me.. and.. Second.. I crafted..

Q1. Imagine, I am about to walk/travel..all AlOne.. through the forest..with water bodied..with a small.. travel bag..What do, I have inside It?? nOw..close my eyes..and answer instantly..first taught counts..Ok!! entering the forest..deep/woody/scary..walked 400 yards, into the deep unknown territory,heard a strange noice..peeped through the leaves and saw an animal/bird/fish.. What??..my first reaction??..then moved on..surprised!! to see a hUt.. in the middle of nOwhere..approached it..saw a muddy mug.. lying outside.. with some sunflower seeds by its side..walked towards the house..knocked at the door..opened..peeped inside, saw a organised room..with a welcOme sign on the table..was surprised!!.. again..to see my name, on the table, neatly written.. on a blAck slate, with a whIte chalk..there was some food on the table..What did I see??..after eating..I took, a small nap..What did I do next?? later walked out of the hUt..looked around..What did I do once outside??Continued my journey..deeper into..later..came to the edge of a mountain..surprised!! again.. to see,  paddy fields.. with a blooming population underneath..travelled down the cliff..saw a house..What house??..did it have a fence around it?? to my horRor.. witnessed a small fire, in the backyard of the house..What was my reaction?? I met the residents of the house..spent my night in their house..next day..What did I do??.. before I left for.. the rest of unknown destination??..travelled again.. saw a water body..What?? Did I.. swim:enjoy/ignored:focused.. on the unknown destination..there was a raft/boatman/bridge..What did I choose to cross across??//decided to make this location..my homE??

Q2. I.. have to travel.. daiLy.. from point A to B..there are 4 options, to choose from..which one.. will I choose..Constraint..musT.. reach the destination on time.. every day..time to travel 2 hours..options available are
    a. Straight highway.. from point A to point B..time taken to travel.. under any given constraints/circumstances..1 hour 40 minutes..but.. toll charge $1 to be paid.
    b. Use of a rout..involving deviations through slums..time taken to travel.. under any given constraints/circumstances..80 minutes..but.. toll charge $0.5 to be paid.
    c. Use of a rout..involving scenic drive.. a treat for the eyes/mind..under any given constraints/circumstances..2 hour 20 minutes..no toll charge needed to be paid.
    d. Use of a combination of a/b/c..depending on the circumstances, of the day/situation unfolding..so can't, decide ahead, which one to choose from.

My Vibs..

How true is this reality in my/our life..individual/person influence.. on self/people.. surrounded with/surrounding with..let be it in any sphere/scenario..Life is all about positive vibratIons/transmissIons.. radiating/emitting ..imbibed in.. out of circumstances/surrounding stimuli..being felt around by self/others ..as a chain reaction..like cut/copy/paste, in terms of computer technology application terms.. One can tackle, any situation/scenario..with a positive vibration/attitude, but.. to be manufactured/created within one self first,which could/can be then transmitted like a chain reaction, as in chemistry terms.. The fact in life being, people link/like to be associated with.. so called/coined, successful individuals/persons in life..be it for materiaL/physicaL/mentaL/spirituaL.. well being/guidance ..and the purity/quality, of.. the/that link.. thus associated, can be gauged/measured.. in terms of once.. imbibed/emitting radiation in life..The emittEd/transmittEd radiation, can be measured, in terms of curie/becquerel..words/deeds. AbsorbEd/imbibEd radiation, can be measured in terms of rad/gray..harmony/peace. And the biological risk of/to exposuRe towards radiation, is measured using rem/sievert..reaction/change.. lifE is so designed that, no one can be exploiteD/useD..it's a choice..one is/makes.. what one sees of self, in life/mirror..is the reality.. to once.. being/existence.. or scenario playing out in life to timE..and the wisdOm, instilled/imparted.. to.. self/being.. leads towards that fulfilment within/surroundings.. May it be a positive radiation/vibration is my humble prayer..As one is to thee.. as what.. he/she speaks of others to yee..And likewise be reminded, to self.. that.. a pen is mightier than a sword..and to use it with.. prudAnce/cautioN.  

StatUs..

  I am inspired, to write today, based on some observations/readings..from the past few days.. a great leader once said, 'Truth is after all truth'..no matter what..and the people, who will persecute you, the most, will be, the ones, whom you are fighting/speaking/trying.. to achieve for the most..so true is his.. observation/ interpretation/analysis.. Some bite /fall into/drift out/ignore.. from the so coined/termed.. luring bate of.. relationship/commitment..some get entangled/choked into.. the net/bate..some fight out permanently scarred..externally/internally.. of this net/bate..called again.. relationship/commitment..where after a point in commitment/relationship.. it comes/leads to.. a point, where it is held/bond/stitched together.. on the principle of.. to be done for/for their sake?? Some find it bitter/sweet..sometimes.. too sweet/too bitter.. to.. swallow in/spit out..
  The socio economic fabric/network/structure.. of our society is/was/were.. tilted/swung.. by the circumstances of.. time/change..where, there has been a great shift/tilt/momentum.. in the, so called perceived.. needs/wants.. of the individual/family/society/nations..caused by mostly, man made catastpohies, in the name of, principles/values.. dearest to, a charismatic individual/community/ group..to be later trusted, deep into the throat, of the others..forcialby/luringly.. in the name of values/good/opportunity..for so called coined terms as..harmony/stability..achieved/acquired ..by means of.. force:power/communication skills..My shaTTered /scrAMbled..focus.. today will be, on the so called perceived leadership role, in/within a family and communication barriers, hindering the growth/blooming.. of a family, to its perceived  potential..
   There was a time in the society, when one lead, and the others within the family/group.. blindly followed the instructions..as was/ is common.. and not changed today, within the animal kingdom..including  the Homo sapien species..though the role of an individual/leadership attribute.. within the fabric.. is tilting/shifting.. from being a provider/giver/protector/implementer..to carer/maker/listener/follower.. I sometimes wonder, did Adam,  have a choice otherwise, not to eat the apple..from the lady, made out of his ribs, to care for his heart..per Jewish/Muslim/Christian traditions.. An order/depiction of.. adoration/worship/sublimation.. of woman to man, per Hinduism/Buddhism/Sikhism/Jainism/Zoroastrian cultures..believes/practices.. The question, being asked daily/struggling to meet with..the basics of economics..two laws juggled around..law of supply/demand or in simple words needs/wants..How to?/Where to?..draw a line, for stability/harmony..within self/family??.. as life, is a constant struggle/refinement.. towards perfection/realisation/purification.. like polishing a diamond of its carbon elements.. sometimes, its worth remembering, that the most valuable/priceless diamond, is an uncut, crude diamond..still in the British museum.
    I am reminded, of the days of Sati..a time when, wife jumps, into the fire of the pyre of her husband in India..a time when she dressed in black/white and remained isolated..to time/change.. we see/we observe today..where.. needs/wants.. rules the desires and propels humanity, towards what/where/how?? is to be seen..what has/have/had.. happened over time are mostly for good..like the fire in a forest..which once extinguished, leaves behind, the prospect/potential for.. richer/lusher/newer opportunities/goodness to bloom, out of the ashes of  perceived destruction.
  In the history of the making.. I am trying to highlight, on some typical family scenario/circumstances/situations.. we encounter/see/experience.. in once/our daily lives.. One, in which, the male provides, by hunting/working, expected of a women to care for their children/put their house in order..like the Horn Bill bird..Second, in which, both provides by hunting/working, expectations form both to care, for their children/put the house in order..like the Pigeons..Third, in which the woman  hunts/works and expects the man, to provide, protection/security/continuity of species, like the Lion.. Forth, where  neither, cares/regards for each other.. its an instinct.. both hunt/work independently.. like the Crocodile.. Fifth group, which is undefined, and behaves, monoecious.. like the  Starfish.. and one..individually/nationally/internationally..has to fall within, one of this taxonomic ranks, of species/genus/family/class.. of Homo sapiens ..to be classified/verdicted.. as an individual of identity..flavoured/featured..to be judged/commented.. for usefulness/uselesness..
  My experience/reaction/change/perception.. of behaviour..  to time in family values, as is  elaborated, in my blog of..  my legends, is true to time/change..the key being, drawn to satisfaction/contentment/fulfilment in life.. to realise the value/meaning of time/ of change..during this season, of advent..a time to pause/think/reflect/breath..in once/our busy days of.. running/gathering.. forgetting to ..enjoy/cherish.. to be later realised.. on the death bed..as to why/what for?? Most of the family responsibilities, broil/grill down.. to two basic fundamental questions.. of financial security/serenity.. in the end to be analysed/scrutinised/reviewed.. for peace/happiness/stability..such a disillusioned/misleading.. bench mark.. which forms only a fraction, of responsible parenting/upbringing/togetherness..to trUst/faiTt/hopE.. within the family..built on which, will be an ideal scenario/situation.. for a smooth family relationship..and when the time to panic/work a bit longer comes, if the foundation are built on the later.. to the former..like the biological clock, built within migratory birds, will realise instinctly/naturally.. to change in weather patterns/situations.. and react promptly to the external stimuli..of stress/strain/constrains/limitations..of mind/body..mostly coined and encapsulated, to a single word, termed security..be it financially..nationally/internationally.. What is the complication/confusion??..is the simple question..things/circumstances.. have only  improved/simplified/progressed/changed.. for the better,from the past..its now, only a matter of education/implementation.. does the individual/nation..has the will..only remains to be answered..things are now.. aligning/sequenced for the better..be it scientifically/socially/economically.. Let me try to explain, in terms of a financial situation, say for instance, a couple has a house, worth $1 and has an income of $2 individually/collectively..what are the other constraints/limitations to be fulfilled/met towards, their daily needs/wants..put in the balance $1 towards that..and use the system, under consideration, to plan for the future..its about using the system in/at hand..and in the process, try to limit the limitations, of guessing/and question as, if it happens??.. In the developed/developing nations, for instance,if one has, one million dollar house, they are  insured for 2 million..in the event of a catastrophic/unforeseen circumstance, it is taken care of then..still left with a surplus..to travel/sail on..be it  house/health/vehicle/job..its only a matter of applying common sense..or/and.. the rest can be termed/deemed.. as greed/ignorance/choice.. in my terms..if one choose to worry, so be it, its once choice.. not the reality/fact/practicality.. clearly portrayed and already living in/into..its all about.. playing/utilising/trusting.. the system/nature.. which has provided/will provide/ will be providing.. in abundance..in one form or the other..  Imbibed virtue/Traits.. of some individuals.. can't be deemed/changed..as some/most.. prefer to lick water, from the middle of a fresh water lagoon /  lick off the residuals/crumbs.. from the left overs of others lips.. Its only, once choice/ not the reality at hand.. drained over/into once conscience/subconscious mind.. by old harsh circumstances/realities.. of once, ancestors/family..and the choice is left to one.. to forget the past and to live in the present, for a better future..to self/people around..
  On words/anger management..key to family integrity/piety..I tend to constantly remind/mostly/often frustrated..of the repetition..to my daughters/family members..that.. I will not be talking/correcting/guiding.. in the same manner,as to your friends/my acquaintances..its my perceived belief/confidence/freedom/liberty/love, seen within..them..as self..leading to the occasional/rare..outbursts.. and the reply bounced/bouncing back..mostly/likely.. would be ..you are meAn/seLfish/crOoked/inTention oriented.. fiNe!! by my understandings/standards..I think/counsel to self, may be, they meant crooked/intentional.. like a jilabee..hum..ha!!
  So called financial security/instability.. is only a fraction, of what is deemed/essential/vital ..for..  livelihood/joy/existence.. life in itself, is to be cherished/observed/imbibed.. as nature teaches us.. what to do/how to relish.. from the four seasons.. as it rolls by..Winter/Spring/Summer/Autumn.. now hum!! hOw?? Winter: Is a time for hibernation/purification .. Spring: Is a time for rebirth/blossoming..Summer: is a time for prosperity/storing..Autumn: Is a time for shedding/preparing..for the next cycle, to continue.. Have I/We.. realised/utilized this seasons/opportunities?? The simple explanation is, what has:have:had happened/shall:will happen, is only, a matter of choIce/tIme..and blaming it all.. on destiny is ignorance to its peak/core.. As in an organisation/work place..one has, to have transparency.. in communication skills.. first within self.. to be extrapolated to the family within/surrounded with..things/actions/deeds.. has not to be taken, for granted/assumed..thinking that  everybody understands/understood..its my/our family..as no two zebras are alike/no two hands,feet's within a person, are alike/no two identical twins are alike.. explanation of who/why/how/when..is very necessary/vital, to be shared/clearly explained to happening within a family.. to otherwise avoid surprises/complications/disasters..clarity of taught/sharing within..which will lead, only to, unity/stability/longevity..of relationship status..not otherwise, to be taken for granted..and which matters the most..as a very successful CEO towards his conceding day stated..life is like,  juggling with 4 balls..family,friends,relationships and job..the first three are made of glass bulbs,and the last one, is made of rubber..my/your life depends, where one sets his/her priorities..glass shatters/breaks..rubber bounce back..if dropped. In the process of catching up /counting on for the stars..it is better for one to realise/cherish.. the moon at hand/within orbits..as..'a bird in hand, is worth two in the bushes'..
  The foundation, so for, Security/Cohabitation/Coexistence/Coordination/Corporation is built/coined.. around.. only one word.. that is..'TRUST'..that is truth/radiance/understanding/stability/toughness.. in short..and finally.. drawing a fine line..by understanding sElf..on the needS/wantS..by prioritising/optimising thEm, is the key to financial stability/personal relationship statUs.