Saturday, October 29, 2011

Reality..

I am generally the first one, to raise a stone and throw at a persons misfortunate situation..though I have resolved/promised to self, I will not Hear/sPeak/sEe and react to ignorance..and spread seeds of haTred..to be later grown into a tree..with birds nesting ON for the next generation ..not knowing the reality of the situation at hand..a decision imbibed into self.. based on considered realitY/trUth.. accounted/justified by the Court/Media..in this modern ciVilised/opEn jungle of reality..a verdict mostly made ultimately by selF..based on/to satisfy/justify the inner comfort levels of eGo/self entertainment..on a situation unfolding/unfolded which was not being witnessed/experienced by self ..I am prompted to write this article, based on the question I generally post to self on my Face Book... Q. What is that which biTes? Ans. Reality.
I am an individual, who trys to be righteous to self..but 99% of the time, end up being unrealistic, in/to.. my taughts/actions/deeds..made/makes/will make, frequent holy pilgrimage, at least once a week, to the place of conscience..to reflect on self..but mostly ends up ON a platform, to show off, my acquired wordily wealth/professional stature/communication skills.. and loose the purpose of visit..where vanity/pride/prejudice, overtakes virtue/truth/simplicity of life..as the saying goes .. prophets of all generations, are to be stoned to death and prayed at their tomb stone, for enlightenment..with crocodile tears.
I was, on my way to work yesterday..and being a freak, on cleanliness/neatness..as I have an imbibed/subconscious feeling that cleanliness is next to godliness..and took it, literally to my conscience, dating way back to my memorable memory ..without analyzing/judging/compromising.. happened to see a spider web, being developed in my car..I taught to self..hum!!How did this happen..the more I try to keep it acceptable..the more messy it gets..do I clean it now/later.. I decided to grab the small piece of cloth, which I generally carry on my side door..and clean it up..rather than having the feeling, of it being there and spoil my private time 45minites ride to/from work, and be grumpy to self..as it is, I am loosing my hair prematurely..why to add another stress and loose some more..and came up with a concept of 'Clean as I go'..to be implemenTed/perfecTed/analyZed.
I am now, again reminded of my father, who is considered as a shadow/image in my life/our life..not very verbal unlike me..unprovoked/non judgmental/silent figure..have never asked/demanded/guided me, in any aspect.. unlike my mother..but have looked up to him for guidance/have never asked..never received..i have, mostly developed on my intusion/gut feelings/circumstances..i was given the frEEdom.. unlike me, who hover around my children, like a helicopter parent..have only memories of him, workIng/providIng/readIng/prayIng.. now for family/self??..one of his weakness/strength??
One should react and react must, to a situation at hand/unfolding..not on the grounds/foundation of hatred..but on a moral ground, when once nation is attacked/way of life is attacked..and what should be the resistance/means, to show once agitation/denial..nothing can substitute solidarity/unity..as a single branch of twig, can be easily broken, not a bundle..organise/unify and show once displeasure, as a nation/community.. through non violent paths and be adamant to, values/causes..foundation of which should be built on reality/evidential truth/thorough analysis, of the unfolding circumstances and reason within means, and sublime to genuine compromises, with an open mind.. *'edUcate'* transparently, to the last individual involved, On the movement, oN the outcome..so let there, be no room, for roomers, as it reads..'Rumers are spread by haters,Spread by fools,Accepted by idiots'.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Expectations..

A normal casual conversation, was cracking up between employees.. when there was  a breathing room to be connected..as colleagues..there happened to be an incident, where in an employee from the bottom level of the management, was applauded beyond comprehension..showered with words as wonderful/awsome/amazing personality..Was left wondering! what is now left to be showered, from the English dictionary..which would melt, even the solid ice in the refrigerator..Now for what?..was the next question.. for her exceptional talent in drawing, her gifted skill, OH!! was shared for free.. for some promotional activity.. of the organisation she works for,she was applauded for her self less charactor/generosity/simplicity..pause.. within 2 seconds, was lashed.. with other statement, for not being practical, on utilising these talents, for her own financial benefits... as it looks, she does it for free, to some of her friends/acquaintances..and later during the day..one of the  employees checked, if in the first place, there was a provision, within the work place, wherein her service was appreciated/applauded with words.. any financial remuneration could be contributed..There was  a pause/delima/confusion/justification..This is the situation, in most of our daily, day to day life..How trUe/jUst are we to self? When the ball comes to oUr court, wE becomes dictators,in once own shoes.
Corporations, have a wonderful HR /ethics division..well explained/elaborated/detailed guidelines, on appraisals/reviews, to be conducted/performed/monitered.. on an yearly basis..the bottom level staffs are neglected/ignored mostly..or else.. one should be verbAl/taleNted/diplomaTic/acquaInted with the immediate up, to be considered, even for an appraisal, and a small yearly raIse..whEn it comes, to the rIghts/prIvileges/bonUs of the edUcated within the system.. it all matters.. to the date/place/time.. The remaining 80% of the work force, can be ignored/skipped, for another year..in the name of scums/stinks/unproductive brains..huM!!This is the world we live in ..cOrpOratiOns/organisatiOns.. being targeted as, milking the system and some being targeted, for making the millions on the many..comparable to royalties..Reality on ground is, mergers/acquations, happening right and left..in terms of Billions.$$..fiRing /frYing/an environment of fear/hatred/recession/depression.. created within the system,on the other hand..for what/why?? How long can a minority, depress a majority?? may be to a limit..history has/will prove otherwise..is the lesson/reality of time.
Have I, ever taught, what have I done, within my powers, to make a difference in my work place,verbally/morally..I blame my Government, for not doing enough, for Myself/Family..Who is the Corporation? They are all, individuals/shareholders/employees within the system..Have I done, my part first, as the, Manager/Supervisor/CEO of the small unit/organisation.. within my limits/powers..have I done, my fAre role??/.. per the established corporate guidelines.. to stand by 80% of the work force, who look up to me.. and work, on a  part time/full time basis.. wE on the other hand, teach our children, that charity/righteousness, should begins at hOme/sElf first..else we are only contributing, a wrong, inFlated figure..to invest else were, for the organIsation.. which runs the show, on well established, mOral grounds at least on papers.
Making use, of the ethical guidelines, of the Corporation/Systems.. from the bottom up, is the key to inclusive growth/satisfaction within..How often, is this realised/reviewed..trickle down effects, stops beyond a particular level, within praCtical situations..and the majority, who shout/scream for injustices..within the corporations/systems.. when it comes to their faiRness..shy away/scared/close their eyes..to contribute..who actually makes the system work..what an irony of situation in lifE!!
There is no substitute, to sharing..this universe works on the principle of fairness/responsibility/trust..being good with words, is as equally important, to be show in action.. sharing is the most, liberating/priceless, experience one can ever experience..the feeling of this liberation, can only be experienced by action, not just words. Then the reality of the phrase, will be more relevant, to practical situation in life that.. 'Work Is Worship'..

Monday, October 17, 2011

CUT/COPY/PASTE

All the.. inventions (scientific, literary)/discoveries (archaeological, spiritual).. are linked to, cut/copy/paste.. in one format or the other. Linked to a beginning,  passed over like a chain reaction picked up by the other interested in..expanding/developing..from it. One should not..shy/hide.. away from sharing a point of..view/idea.. thinking, I am coping it. We have all copied in one form or the other, for instance, obtained a.. school/college.. certificate..in the name of.. memorized /stored/ reproducible..versions..and obtained corresponding grades for well..rehearsed/mugged..in..formulas/theories/chapters..imbibed into understanding the topics. Nothing was  created new out of the bloom by any single indivIdual, was and is always a collective effort. To be reminded often, the more given to a person..on/of.. circumstances/situations..in/built..much more expected from..him/her..then its becomes a choice, within their virtues imbibed to use it prudently. This universe is, and will always be a sharing platform.. linked to a past/relevant to the present/to be accomplished for the future..the sooner, one realize this reality the humbler one will bE.

Cartoons of Hate/Love!!

What is the solution, to Cartoons of Hate/Love? Do we spread, more cartoons and be cartoons, in our Taught and Views. We say education is the solution, please educate the public. Where do we start then? In the road/house/temple/church/mosque..are we, so  broad minded? The school is a great platform. Why don't we start, a VALUE class, like any other subject we teach. Rather than, hiding them in the name of History/Social studies ..which are, even difficult for an archaeologist, sometimes to explore, the way it is portrayed/written..Why can't, we be honest in our approach? Why are we scared? Do we really know, what is Christianity(2.1 billion members),Islam(1.5billion),Hinduism(900 million),Buddhism(376 million),Sikhism(23 million),Judaism(19 million) and many more..why don't we learn, first, some of its basics,before we make a judgment. One.. would be more challenged, to know once installed faith better, if given such an opportunity. OR are we just entertaining, our mind, with another cartoon of the day.. and let us be exploited, by shrewd people, for their ends. Why don't we.. as a nation, start first and send out angels, of knowledge, for the next generation at least..

vIew..

    Once upon a time, at the world religious conference a wise man told the story about a frog which lived in a well. The story goes, it was very happy and contended.. within itself/within its walls. Then one day, another frog which lived in a river, happened to fall into the well, after a while they started talking. The frog from the well, asked the unexpected.. strange/similar looking visitor. How big is your well?? Is it as big as mine?? The frog  from the river was.. puzzled/ spell bound..it paused, had difficulty explaining its experience. The frog from the well after listening, nodded patiently and jumped from one end of the well to the other saying, sure your river can’t be as big as mine?? What is education?? It is expOsure, we have..science/ math/history/physical education lessons..exposed/taught.. from the school level. Why not introduce a topic called.. Value..class/lesson?? To what we have, some produce 10,40,60,100 folds. Majority nations have a system making.. xerox machines/parrots..of its future. The point is, value imbibed into the..0-100%.. 2 be.. sharing/responsible..individuals from the knowledge within to ..ridicule/downsize..others in the name of..intelligence/discipline..obtained with..circumstances/hard work.  I often wonder.. what is /should be.. education..beyond a point one learns how to..read/wright?? How many does a job assuring satisfaction.. within self/creates one for others.. 4m the moment started.. to earn/building on  up 2?? When I say, nothing happening in my.. spiritual/personal..relationShip  in spite of all my..prayers/deeds..reflects either of the two scenarios..nothing imbibed into  real practical hemisphere from within, projecting an amber signal of precaution /not satisfactory with what is done to the perfection expected from within, waving a green flag of progress made so far.
    This planet  has witnessed most blood shed in the name of religious supremacy than..for/from.. any other causes. Is that what their founders wanted?? A nobel laureate, dreamed in his poem, 'Where knowledge is free and the head is held high'. It is difficult for a person to redesign..his/her..vision/view. An opportunity.. can/could/should.. be given for a child in the house to built.. his/her.. home/world. We should educate our next generation with not just knowledge, but with values from all religious denominations, collected from all across the planet. To avoid exploitation in the name of religious ideologies, which will helps to frame an unbiased decision when  aware of all religious founding principles. Then this prime objectives will fulfil two missions..a thirst to explore more born into/to respectfully correct others when fallen out of track. None advocates supremacy, only shows a path to stability within. The treasures which are hidden in all the great teachings are priceless. It would help to develop..tolerance/ understanding/balance/virtue.. from a very young age. One should believe our future deserves an open world, where..once/ their.. minds are not shut, with barriers..guilted/littered.. with blood. Let us be honest in our approach to our religious views, not complicate our next generation as we are in the name of.. history /literature/ social studies etc.. Can we ..advocate for a chance/ we have a value study class..as a curriculum in our..schools/work place. Forward this.. view/talk about it.. to people around..cut/copy/paste..beautify it with your dreams for tomorrow. None of the.. words/alphabets.. above.. are.. my/our.. inventions/creations.. its been passed rolled on over generations. Can we start dreaming for a change.The.. fictions/dreams.. have put us on to the.. moon/space.. quest. Can we dream for  a change in our.. self/family/community/nation..firsT.

My religious view..

One of the casual comments, I/We pass, without any real interest/intentions, when I/We gather at our church is ..Do/Can.. you see the population ,of people who comes to the church.. mostly gray hairs.. in their 70’s or plus.. Western culture, has lost its flair for religious, traditional, age old Gothic practices..which is now struggling, to be preserved, by a few..at least, as an archaeological artifact, on tax payers money, as heritage homes.. we are deeply sorry to see their struggle.. to cope up with this generational gap of understanding..are their youngsters not interested..?? Do I really care?? Then after a bit of socialization/ comments/jocks/ mud throwing, with some pride/satisfaction, gained on some moral/ verbal grounds.. but mostly, with some dissatisfaction, on lost grounds..I move on, to my next schedule, on the seventh day of the week..sometimes reminded of school days.. cursing/ bored/disillusioned..thinking, when is it really going to finish.. even before the kick off.. unlike a sport event.. Once inside the holy temple..with wide open/fooling eyes, with a wandering sole inside..I wonder, what %, do I really spent, following the regular/formatted..passed over generational scripture readings?? My personal experience, with my strict/disciplined/dedicated, upbringing tells me ..may be 10% of the 1 hour.. Which may be captivated by.. a well orchestrated coir team/well rehearsed speech/unexpected new ambiance of the environment/occasion leading to the attendance/a talented verbal guest/fear passed over and inscribed into my basic DNA...by my family/ancestors/environment.. whAt for and wHy?? I wonder, most of the time.. How do I force, my kids, the food, which, I do not fully cherish/understand/like..and do it for/on their name,towards/to their good/well being.
  Not faIr.. was the comment.. my youngest 2 year old daughter, passed in the church, when she was denied, an I phone application.. she loves to watch, but compromised, on a noiseless drawing app..gave me the peace of mind and an opportunity to look good, in front of others.. thinking my drama, with my child will not hinder the concentration, of other faithful/religious gathered..my mind, meanwhile flew to my dreamy world.. wondering lost?? During such a situation, a created/unforeseen distraction, is an opportunity/an excuse, to venture out, unnoticed by critical soles/eyes, in the name of distraction.. I am left wondering.. What is then pulling me to this gathering??Is it my Social needs/Traditional obligations?? Am reminded of an adult elephant, tied to a small chain ,when asked to its caretaker, by a bewildered bystander, as to, why the biggest animal on this planet behaves so well.. the answer given, was very simple, by the uneducated trainer.. this elephant was/is with us, since its birth and its been tied to this chain, since its existence,it thinks to this day, that it is very difficult, to get of this bondage..hUm!!the Da Vinci code broken. Am reminded of the current Western trends.. churches/schools/hospitals.. becoming a liability/burden, for the organization running it,in the name of christian doctrines/values and being sold to business establishments as pubs/hotels/garages..and the turmoil, brewing within, the well established religious order, which once prided on discipline/order/dedication..is/are now being perceived/viewed, as abusers/exploiters/feudal lords/out of touch personalities, with common, basic reality, in the society..within/outside the faith..remember this was an institution, which once was an inseparable part, of an individuals life, in the western society and crusade war were being mobilized in its name..history?? We see their boom now in, African/Asian and other developing/under developing continents.. as was in the dark /gothic ages, in Europe..
   I am reminded, of a story of an employer, who hired few workers, to work in the morning , later during the noon, he hired few more workers and before dawn, he hired some more jobless workers wondering on the street.. to work in his field ..and by the end of the day, he paid every one $100..this obviously, led to a conflict within the workers.. and the simple explanation given by the employer was, I gave everyone what I promised.. This is left to my discretion.. How is this perceived, if I was one, of the workers, who was hired to work from 9 AM to 5PM..is it faIr?? This is an example, of a repeated/passed over story.. I have heard/ hearing.. since my childhood.. I happened to hear it again, today, during the regular/formatted/formal liturgical celebration..in a casual/normal/less dramatically portrayed fashion ..The real impact/mood, elevated/depleted, depending on the communication skill, of the preacher who delivers it, on the platform for similar other versions.. I am left wondering now, where else would this platform be better suited otherwise?? How/Why/What for.. should I take this message? Should I take it, in the name of tradition values/treasures, passed over, to me, by my upbringing in this environment..and is it worth, to be passed over, to my next generation, in the same spirit/format? Or is it worth, more to invest, the same money spent here, on a YMCA club membership, for a family, cosTing often less ..where by, I can see.. at least a result on my/our body tone/posture.. with some dedication and effort.
In the church, today, my/our parish priest, hinted/preached, on the teachings/cleansing of the temple of God..of business dealings/trade, within the system.. by Christ/Jesus..where does my/your.. principles stand on this issue?? Our priest asked twice to the kids/elderly gathered..what was/is.. the meaning of this passage??and by coincidence, my youngest daughter, dropped her quarter coin twice, on the floor..  I had to hide, my wicked smile within.. I am reminded of my aunt, rushed to the best medical institution in Kerala,Amirtha medical College.. to be correctly diagnosed, with an up coming problem/issue..within hours..being washed out/betrayed/referred to.. from some of the best, well established/historical christian hospitals.. now being viewed/perceived, as corporations/business institutions ..services offered in the name of a hanging cross..displayed with pride/being used, as marketing strategy, to attract the sick/needy, hanging .. with a fallen/ashamed/shy face..on the walls, over each beds/chairs/billing counters..collected by, so called angels/brides/disciple.. of the risen Christ/Jesus..for what, I sometimes/mostly wonder?? To a single  prayer, taught/left, behind by Christ.. ''Give us this day, our daily bread''
The fundamental questions, which is being/will be asked, by the cuRRent / upCOming, generation of Christians(2.1 billion members),Muslims(1.5billion),Hindus(900 million),Buddhists(376 million),Sikhs(23 million),Jews(19 million) and many minorities, in our community..will be?? 'IS IT WORTH IT'..Major philosophies/guidance's..given/giving out..Peace/Brotherhood/Harmony/Might.. With this pace of time and technological advancement.. the world has ever seen, in the past 20 years, it is only a matter of ‘TIME & CIRCUMSTANCE’.. Are we prepared, with an answer, to the questions to be thrown with? Are we aware of our Past/Present/Future to be.. Do we have a viSion?? Do we just embrace, the changing scenario, as a product of change, happening, linked to only some scientifically accepted theories of evolution, and close our eyes, to present realities, made real by constant media publicity's/stories..The fundamental question to be asked is.. Where do I stand? And having said this.. my within.. tells me a story of these virtues ..Faith/Hope/Love/Forgiveness/Trust/ Patience/Compassion/Honesty/Suffering/Sharing/Gratefulness..  Which has given me, the utmost joy and satisfaction, under any given 'reaLised' circumstances.. and when, I stand, in this mysterious/ unconscious/forced gathering, dedicated to.. in a week of seven.. I try to recollect, these virtues within..passed over and polished by this rolling stone..called the place of worship/temple of God..within my imperfections.. and try to be a human/humane.. by recognizing the fact, for being, a human, first within, my subconscious being.. All the philosophies, teach us, this very basic fact, that every action/preaching/teachings.. has an equal and opposite reaction, so the  current scenario.. unfolding with time, is a product of, miscalculated judgments/actions, and blaming it, on the philosophies, which gave this realization, on the first place, proves the ignOrance, of my imbIbed depth, of understandings of these teachings. As every Up has a dOwn/every Surise has a Sunset, let me/we, hope, this downs/sunsets.. encountered, in the/this current scenario, won’t hinder the ups/sunrise to follow/shine..or else.. what is the point, in using the term, coined, 'juStice'..by humanity..is it always a.. punishing/vengeful/grieving.. or.. a forgiving/understanding/joyful experience, to be cherished daily, in once daily art of living.

Idolatry..

In a blessed, complete family, we have, Father/Mother/Children..and all have a role. The holy family, of Nazareth, should be viewed in that perspective. I have a problem approaching my dad directly, may be, out of my deepest respect, my mom is easily approachable. I have, my best arguments and fights with her.This is a platform, to show, the natural human approach, to a situation. The question of adultery, doesn't, come into picture..in any religious contest. If the teachings, are taken, in their value based approach..its all about, good stories/morals.. picked from them, for a good night sleep. When we talk of idolatry..would I, like my family/friends/acquaintances to spit, on my portrait..knowing well, they have the deepest, sincere respect for me..as it is, only my image, on a sheet of canvas/paper!! It all depends.. how we perceive/look at it..religious education is, picking the right values of, patience/humility/sharing/sacrifice/trust/faith..they are all explained, in the contest of small parables/stories..in most of the major religious texts..to a variety, of practical, likely situations, one might/could/will.. encounter in once lifetime..but,not taking things, out of contest, from here and there.. and debating on them..will only, end up in, pride/arrogance/dilemma.. life is very simple,live simple/think simple..within the sophistication it offers..we make it look, very complicated..read from a full story point/perspective..the message linked, will be Clear/sImple/usEful at the end.

partnerShip

'Don't look for a pretty face, it will turn old one day. Don't look for a soft skin, it will wrinkle one day. Seek for a loyal heart, that will miss you every day and love you forever'.

Objective:
I am attempting to define the relationship/partnership equation between a wife/husband. The holistic guideline stipulates, one to be the brain and the other to be the heart to sail this relationship smoothly, under any given circumstance.

Analysis:
W:wise
I: impressive
F: fruitful
E: efficient..............................Eq..1
                                                              
H:holistic
U:understanding
S:sensible
B:brave
A:analytical
N:negotiator
D:dynamic...............................Eq..2

I am attempting to define..bharia/bhartav..in malayalam, my mother tongue

B:balanced
H:humble
A:approachable
R:radiant
Y:yearning
A:addictive ............................Eq..3

B:brave
H:holistic
A:analytical
R:responsible
T:talented
H:harmonious
A:assertive
V:vigilant................................Eq..4
U:understanding

Therefore if we equate:
Eq..1 (LHS) = Eq..2 (RHS) are they equal?
Similarly if we equate from a different culture/coordinate.
Eq..3(LHS)  = Eq..4(RHS) are they equal?

    Scientifically analyzing/equating are they made the same chemically. For instance, fertility ratio -millions produced in a single day to once during a full moon cycle. / Physically / Emotionally just think!.. not in terms of the individuals rights/honor/respect which both deserve equally. Ending up often in polarity/confusions when the right hand/hemisphere of the brain doesn't know/understand what the left hand/hemisphere of the brain is doing/ thinking. Eventually to end up confusing basic rights/liberty/freedom with common sense/diligence/moral vitreous values. To very often/sometimes witness misunderstandings/undertakings, when objectives are scattered/shattered without any clear, simple vision/mission put simply as clarity. In our evolved better world, some tend to say olden times things were simple in reality now it is simpler.
    The sedimentation/crystallizing  factors attributed to a vowel-less word 'my', will thus eventually define the meaning of the word 'vowel' if it does means anything to the engaged/committed into this vowed partnership. Living in an era/yuga of virtual fantasy/realism thus linking/attracting once physical/tangible self towards the next dimension of abstract/intangible attributions of emotions/work derived opportunities, is now being cultured/cultivated as entertainment/recreation/futuristic fashionable work culture, where it is less stressful/financially optimal to manage a computer/robot to an organic physical living being, thus recreating/blurring the reality of concrete practicality/tangibility to illusion/delusion in the name of progress/civilization. Which eventually will/should turn out to be a curse/boon. A constant factor know as time will eventually etch its remarks into its profile, known as history engraved within its database, within another constant known as circumstance.
    Once committed/encouraged into this partnership, the golden rule is to follow the golden steps of 'unconditional love' to be built on no expectation, no matter what in/without so called wealth/health/knowledge/power to literally experience this relationship blossom which is nearly impractical/challenging and would need courage/strength within character to naturally/organically cherish this blissful unconditional nectar.
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Conclusion:
    Per the observation of a great.. thinker/adviser.. he pointed out that, 'a women is 2 times as shy as a man,4 times as brave as a man,and 8 times as lustful as a man'. As pointed out prudently within the most ancient revered/revealed  text of wisdom, a women very often is/seek 'fame/fortune/speech/memory/intelligence/faithfulness and patience'. While majority of men longingly craving very often for motherly love/pleasure/stability. Its the choice to be made by a women to draw a fine line of  defining freedom/equality in this era voted for choice for a better tomorrow/future, she has to be more prudent/responsible/vigilant than her counterpart on addictions/cravings as she is chosen by Nature/God to bear responsibility for the fruits of tomorrow, from whose imbibed paired divinity, germinates/sprouts the inner wisdom to bear the fruits of knowledge towards the present/future, compared towards the sensible,holistic,vitreous caring security,leadership expected from a man. Worth remembering a man very often commits the acts and then he realizes, to a woman saying something before thinking. He produces millions every day to be scattered, her just one in a month. Wife/Husband not to be treated/perceived as wonderful instrument for enjoyment, else this relationship will last/value as any of our many desirable material possessions/obsessions. "A man often forgets but do not forgive/A women very often forgive but do not forget. Is the characteristic salient feature of this union, as reminded to us by a very popular relationship counselor of our time. Where if a husband and wife can stays together,it can be deemed as a joint family in our evolving yuga. To blossom if they prudently undertake/understand the chemistry of millions produced daily by a fertile blessed man to the monthly tides blessed to the fertile female to a period in her life.
    In life this united relationship experienced/explained to the circumstantial situation explored/witnessed  Pre-Independence/Independence/Republic. May this..partnership/institution be united into a relationship to be built on..faith/hope/trust/responsibilities beaded together as pearls on a thread called love. Mostly understood as trust/loyalty being expected from a wife/husband to be built on a platform of forgiveness/endurance. Reminding to be built on honest sincere communication, to be strengthened again on the pillars of moral compass/guidance often being built on sacrifice/patience. Kind of like two hands in our body/paired sense organs, one different from the other, is the duel nature of  this relationship worth recollecting within. To remind self/each other often that one should climb a mountain not so that the world can see you, but so you can see the world. This sacred relationship commands happiness, how can there be any happiness without peace and the key to this lock is desire.
    The fruit of this relationship called/know as parenthood to be perceived/understood as wisely laid out 'It is not a competition to see who has the cleverest kid, the cleanest house, the healthiest dinner, nicest cloth, newest car, and most holidays. Parenthood is a journey/not a destination with your children'. To  be built on 'unconditional' understanding/undertakings called love/respect if to cherish the organic nectar of its bliss. When children do not accept/respect the role and willingly undertake the responsibilities of parenting/parenthood.. realize and have same expectation from their own, be it linked to child/geriatric grooming/ caring. The collective decision/strides of the family/community/nation eventually becomes the collective tradition/trend  to cherish/suffer. Reminding/Pasting within an understanding/undertaking recited ignorantly/enthusiastically into a partnership/sacrament known as marriage "Groom: I, take thee to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I plight thee my troth.
Bride: I, take thee to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, cherish, and to obey, till death us do part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I give thee my troth."  So promise/invite and be part of a relationship/partnership,  without any preconditions/expectations to enjoy/cherish/share/care within the parameters of sincere unconditional responsibilities to be taken together earnestly/honesty into this unforeseen journey/venture.  
   Winding down ,with a beautiful summery on happiness.'If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap/if you want happiness for a day, go for a picnic/if you want happiness for a week, go on a vacation/if you want happiness for a month, get married/if you want happiness for a year, inherit wealth/if you want happiness for a life time, learn to love what you do.' Do not curse/laugh/pull each other down once into this relationship, realize one just need the other as a support is the fact, to help self look deeper within this journey not a destination. Its your choice willingly/circumstantially and worth remembering, when one makes a commitment,one build hope and when it is kept,one build trust. If one realize this be in any..language/culture.. life will be much more.. meaningFul/beautiFul/peaceFul.
       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBHd2HBjnZE
       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt_S5nsNHn0 (Mother's language: Malayalam)
       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoKGCtaqkxU (Hindi)

An attempt to define Government & Values..

Efficacy should be measured and measured, by results and implementation skill only..
Bench marks for any governance: Given situation when the ship was handed over and the current situation unfolding, with time, steps taken to tackle it, with transparency/ commitment.
Goodness of the intention: Goodness is an abstract phrase, can only try to substantiate with an abstract ideology.. One is born into a family {Nation} some very fortunate(?%), some in the middle(?%),some struggling to meet ends(?%). The character of the person ie; Goodness is developed, by what one, Reads/ sEes/ heAr.. Every one, once born, passes through 4 stages {Demography} ..Crawling(?%), Running(?%), Supporting(?%) and Depending stage(?%)..It is the people in the Family/Community/Society/Country.. at large which should, determine, what is right/ wrong, for each stages of once life.
Fingers in the palm, as long as, all are attached to the palm, it will work efficiently.. Must *note and realize, not all fingers are the same, the thumb has a role, the little finger has a role.. If one realizes this in the Family/Relationship/Governance scenario.. things will be easier. Imagine the thumb is amputated for some reasons. The other fingers, will have to take up the responsibilities of the thumb. Which if we notice, has a special detached, place in the hand..not very closely associated, with the rest of the fingers..let us assume the thumb, to be the government/reliable person in a family..(the reason we say government/bread winner of the family, is not connected, to the reality of people/family at hand).. Rest, left to your imagination..
Government {SERVANT} President/ Prime Minister/ Top Bureaucrat: Should be well educated // have a thirsting mind, to educate/ competent/ have principles /and good values.. Such an individual can be trusted, with responsibilities, anD the rest, should follow with confidence. There is no substitute.. for Trust/Hard work/Faith.. It has to be earned. And one has to have the patience, to wait if entrusted..all life altering inventions/discoveries/ tasty foods.. Need time and patience.
One should, have the basic sense, not to ask a spectro physicist.. do you really understand what light /darkness is?? But, he should be definitely challenged, as to, what within a spectrum works?// what to be done? to use/bring the best of the knowledge he/she, has in his/her field. That is the practical application of wisdome.
There will be poor/rich in the society. Rich in wealth? A millionaire/Billionaire..but poor in health..it all depends how we look at it..(Some say wealth is health..changing W to H)..again its an abstract quantity..here the question, of developed values/ goodness /principles may apply.
Arise.. aWake.. stop not.. till the goal is reached..educate/share ..it will, only lead, to liberation, of the mind/body.

Trust

Trust is, that reliable understanding(undertaking) strengthening truth.
'We'.. I taught, all citizens, unless a pre-conceived image, is created, for who should be 'WE'..I believe U.S is a land of opportunity/dreams.. with a fair approach to diversities/multiculturalism..or.. one should, be honest enough, to Consciousness, as to, who a Real American is? In a migrated community, what UNITED Stands for..With a logo which says 'IN GOD WE TRUST' ..So now I hope, I can use, the word we, in the sentences following.
'Government'-Is the people...'Corporations'- Is the people .
Fundamental of any good Corporations/Government: Trust/tRansparency/faIrness. Basic question is simple. Who do you trust? One who gambles or one who assures. To me, It is not fair, to blame any single individual, for a situation..I believe in tackling the situation. Not passing the blame game..or the situation can gets out, of hand..here the question is ..Do we need a Social security/ Medical assistance/Safety net.. supported by the elected representative be it Red/Blue/ Green??
My knowledge, is very limited, to practical situations at hand. When I am sick.. and I go to a hospital, will I be treated, or put aside,asking/saying.. pay your bills first, then will look into the matter.. 'I' could be, an individual, who ran a business/servant/handicap individual.. and.. went broke/works/disabled. Will there be a system, to provide, when the hands/legs, have reached a point it can't..I believe in, Trust/Honesty/Compassion/ Sacrifice/Forgiveness.. which is, 'GOD'..I am proud to say 'I TRUST IN GOD'.
Rather than saying.. its all human tendencies/destiny/fate.. and brushing reality, under the carpet..This Earth/Universe/Cosmos is perfect, it runs on precision.. it does not need, our stressed knowledge/oil.. its only humans, which make it complicated..and divided..in the name of cast/creed/color/religions..this planet is huge enough, to support all..Now you may say..I am not practical/reality bites/its harsh/bitter..My basic question is, when, Christ was shown, the whole world, to worship evil.. He chose to be himself..a Divine quality. I adore his teachings, give once due..what goes to Ceaser/to God..'Ceaser' could be Corporation/Government.. and be just to self.. giving food/clothing/shelter.. to the needy..within.. families/societies/nations..to once means/limits..or..plEase..do not, use, the name, of God, in what we say/do..leave him alone. If fasting/penance/teachings.. can't develop, these insights, but grow only, hatred/scorn/untouchables/ignorance.. its then time.. to reflect/develop/make.. a system, which caters to later need.