Event..

    I happened to meet, a moderately effluent mid aged women at my work station recently, during the business to get her engaged to mask off the boredom associated with the process of getting a green signal from.. bureaucracy/autocracy/red tapism/guideline.. stringing out of a reason deemed reasonable responsibility, to obtain per our understanding to be eligible to clain..for/from. I purposefully as in majority of the instances remarked typing in her married surname looks very familiar to me, she remarked really to the statement made. How do you know it? I remarked tangentially,I hale from that nation where this name evolved from and per the surnames an average individual hailing from this nation with reasonable exposure can blindly taxonomically pin point to their precise global coordinate. Interesting she remarked, and went on to say she was busy with her daughters wedding, which kind of went hazily per her understanding of the occasion. Hum!!not surprising madam, we in our tradition expect things to happen as it should happen, its kind of a surprise to us on the spot. What do you mean??she remarked. Madam say for instance in the west they have a tradition of rehearsing for a marriage celebration..days/weeks/months/year.. in advance ..anticipating to get it to the dot. We in the east experience it as it comes, what happens next is a surprise to the majority in the process of happening, no rehearsals for kissing,walking,dressings so on, traditionally may be due to lack of..time/resources/priorities/understanding. I would personally prefer events to unfold as it unfolds, to make it unfold the way it should 2 my interference is my preference madam and would definitely prefer..perfection/repetition/validation/preciseness..with automated mechanical intervened instrumentation process but not with human mind. And more over to..cherish/ understand..such events, how many are really interested, its accomplished for the sake of accomplishment to be within the bubble now. An..event/occasion..in the name of..ritual/culture/tradition/religion..waiting to be burst with time, if perceived and followed thus is my observation, within our space of current understanding madam. A point in our generation of pill culture,where it is fashionable to be medicated on the..principle/understanding.. of ..modernity/civility..and the term suffering is now mostly linked to our mental emotional well being in the developed nations, to the relative physical struggles undertaken towards survival by its past generation, sometimes have to sympathises for the word suffering itself, for the painful mutations it had to evolve through this generation to be termed generation gap. She looked now a bit symphetatic to her evolved circumstance and curious enough to wipe away the haziness associated with their evenT.