Track-'travel record and crack knowledge'. Reminded me of a sentence used very often in tracking/bridging the dots within relationships. Oops! Proceeding further after a small disclaimer. Having organically come from the land of mystics/free advisors, where everyone is a philosophers in/by themselves. Thus, not disappointing the inherited natural trait, proceeding ahead with much passion and vigor within my scattered/scrambled thoughts. 'Be together like a railway track'. What does this statement mean, into any vocation undertaken by individuals as a choice, equally relevant/applicable to a monk/family person. The two tracks symbolizing two separate identities/individuals parallel to each other, being bridged/connected by planks of mutual symbiotic interests to travel/grow/share/care towards to make any sense of this journey/destination aimed towards connecting/moving from point A to B into our journey called 'life'.. which to my understanding/undertaking is to 'live in faith/fear endlessly'. Eventually giving way to engines/bogies to travel over it smoothly, is what this metaphor symbolize. The moment the tracks are fused and unified, it looses its purpose/role and should not be intended as well. Each track, one not any bigger/lesser than the other, even by an inch, but needing each other to fulfill a larger role/purpose is the reality/intended delegated role in its integrated engineered model/design. Many a time its worth remembering, any track can and would survive/sustains meaningfully and effortlessly only with honesty/effort/maintenance/clear cut 'simple vision' when built on a plank of a 'sincere mission' with a humble 'clear purpose'. Many organised institutions, which we witness today established to track curb the degree of desire/manage emotions triggering our cognitive habituated/exposed attitudinal pattern, attributed to our thoughts/feelings/behavior to be contended with how much/many at large. Eventually linked to possessions/relationships to define the choice/status of once chosen path/track.
Many fall into a track, where the 'giver of divinity' called 'God' comes first into their life, to be accompanied by rest of accomplishments known as work rendered as service unconditionally. Some falling into a track of delusion/sensual fulfillment with no fixed guidelines/objectives. Others following a disciplined /principled objective and agenda wiling away the gift of moment under the pretext of science/rationality. The objective of all, to balance the acts and fall into the middle ground/grove of reasoning with propulsion as and when it evolves out circumstantially/evolutionary. Reminded today of the many valuable priceless moments spend/shared with our grandparents, who raised their children, numerically equivalent to fingers in our palms, just on blind trust. Now when tending to connect it to the current logical highly modulated/educated propulsion built on logic/economics..who are stressing/struggling to live in their today/present and anxious for their tomorrow/future with a few decorated ornaments tagged along as their responsibility. Happened to come across some time tested wipers, passed over generations which many of our ancestors took to heart and survived/managed their flocks successfully knit together in moderate peace/harmony within their imperfections/limited available resources. Pasting within some of the shared wisdom/collected ideologies/gossips which came across my gauge one day. Which went on to remind/suggest some guidelines to all queens of kings. Summarized as lessons/tips jotted down.
1) Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2) Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.
3) Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4) Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will eventually diminish.
5) Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6) Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7) Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8) Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9) Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10) Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long. Reminded,many man are ready and energetic with vigor packed cells irrespective of their age at any given moment, to the very limited single one produced every month. Which is again under the constraints of aging and many hormonal factors.
11) Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12) Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13) Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14) Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15) Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16) Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17) Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word.
18) Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him, even if you earn more money than him?
19)Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20) If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.
21) Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22) A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23) Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24) Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25) Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26) Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27) Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28) Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29) You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30) A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.
If our life is to be divided into four quarters and to pick a quarter depending on our perception/expectation. The first reminding us to 'take in' and be disciplined/groomed, second reminding us to 'take in' and be productive/resourceful, third reminding us to 'give back' our lessons/experiences and the fourth quarter remind us to mediate/'give back' our acquired treasures. Coincidentally pasting within a track on parenthood. Found it worth adding into this CPU.. not questioning/knowing when it would comes handy/useful within our blossoming timE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pTK0j2qYAw
5) Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6) Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7) Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8) Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9) Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10) Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long. Reminded,many man are ready and energetic with vigor packed cells irrespective of their age at any given moment, to the very limited single one produced every month. Which is again under the constraints of aging and many hormonal factors.
11) Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12) Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13) Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14) Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15) Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16) Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17) Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word.
18) Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him, even if you earn more money than him?
19)Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20) If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.
21) Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22) A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23) Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24) Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25) Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26) Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27) Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28) Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29) You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30) A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.
If our life is to be divided into four quarters and to pick a quarter depending on our perception/expectation. The first reminding us to 'take in' and be disciplined/groomed, second reminding us to 'take in' and be productive/resourceful, third reminding us to 'give back' our lessons/experiences and the fourth quarter remind us to mediate/'give back' our acquired treasures. Coincidentally pasting within a track on parenthood. Found it worth adding into this CPU.. not questioning/knowing when it would comes handy/useful within our blossoming timE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pTK0j2qYAw
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