happiNess..

    "If wealth is the secret to happiness,the rich should be dancing on the street but only poor kids do that. If power ensures security then officials should walk unguarded, but those who live simply sleep soundly. If beauty and fame brings ideal relationship,then celebrities should have the best marriages, but it is not here. Simplicity leads the world. Live simply/Walk humbly/Love genuinely."  Another one goes on to say.."Wealth and power always gives pain during the process of.. accumulation/loosing/possessing." Is the reality, which I recently read on my face book page, taught worth reflection/imbibing on/into before proceeding with my scattered/shattered thoughts.

     Realizing very well that theory's/ practicals are two sides of a coin, but what is a coin without this hum!! To a recent conversation, which revolved around characters who play the role of heroes/villains, but what is a stage without both, is another factual reality in/of our life. As a great writer said, "This world is a big stage ". Not to be judgmental, if not traveled in their path/circumstances and to let go, seems is the key to inner/outer.. peace/stability. Most of the religious thinking/philosophy points to repentance, which is the understanding of rational thinkers of accept/acknowledging the basic fact that it happened/happens,due to  this/that reason. Which later evolve out as forgiveness in holistic/spiritual religious terms or treatment strategies in technical phrases of science, for the same reason. One using  the abstract and the other using the physical tangible elements/resources of nature for a solution, just to be out of the pain and be happy again. Does these solutions again define happiness!? Rightly pointed out by a taught full/exploring priest, for a GPS to be of any purpose/utility one has to be specific of once destination/objectives/goals for it to do its job. Errors/misjudgments by the user is ruled out during the ride to the selected final destination, provided the mind has a purpose and trust in the lead, which seldom fails. Happiness to my understanding doesn't exists, its just a coined word to denote an expression of gratitude/fulfillment/pleasure/accomplishment. Interpreted often as the internal beauty of the soul, where once thoughts show the status of the mind and the reflecting behavior often depicts the language of the imbibed mind/personality.

    In reality, was wondering often we as adults need repeated orientation sessions like the one for our kid's/children's at school. We often behave like he/she.. did this/did not do that/should have been done this way/did not listen to me/so time to suffer.. so the unending analytic  list unfolds/evolve out. Once behaviors are often attributed to an understanding that milk is offered to only a crying child/baby. Dreaming for a day when an adult will behave like a deserving adult, including myself to claim the maturity of an adult with due diligence. We often brush the reality as ignorance under the carpet, to be truly practical illogically is the understanding trend of the present/past majority. To often concede/conclude its too real to be true and glorify the living doers in poverty/smug is the reality. This  choice to evolve out and reflect in the political/religious/working/homely culture to live into. In general/reality the kid in self is never given an opportunity to mature out as adults, to witness only the change in physical stature often is the fact. Holding on to material wealth/knowledge to candies in kids and territories/land to toys for kids and wage wars and create mistrust is the age old understanding of contentment/ happiness. Often we are tuned for/to this perfection at/from.. schools/work/home/society to seek light in the darkness to be happy. Kind of the choice made now, to work under the lamp during the day and seek for sunlight at dusk/night.

    Can any one define happiness otherwise pleasE!?