togetherNess

    A homely concluded reminding: An anthropologist on his research field in Africa, set out on a task. He managed to gather some children and placed a tray of sweet at the finishing line and told them, who ever reaches the finishing line first can take all the sweets. To his dismay, without a second taught, the kids formed a chain and ran 'together' towards the sweets and shared it. Where are we today as a family/community in this journey of grooming/sharing/caring/living together than to be rhetorical with empty words/dramas of no action/content ,both personally/socially within our evolving philosophies/ideologies?
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIUQ5G2BRvk
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUz4uBSh34c
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1bNmdYrYRo
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggnx1g2S5KE
 (https://www.akshayapatra.org/) (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VVVFWfz-II)
    What have we achieved together in this 21 century. Politically- What is being promised/delivered, are they being felt as opposites on ground? Religious institutions- How is it felt by their faithful subjects. Has it evolved into a relationship of predator/pray? Parental/family undertakings and understandings-Is it stifling and suffocating to the recipient and  promoter? Wealth management-In the name of corporation and governance as stake holders and promoters. Is it transparent and prudently managed/shared diligently? Stress- Is the society/management designed to be huddle/stress creators floating on the platform of greed/inequalities to rumble down and destroy once peace of mind and purpose of life in its holistic totality.
         https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKwIFYuH-tw
         https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugh4Tv56k7w&feature=share (In Hindi)
         https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUeWvtZ7crw
         https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjEStjqtiqY
    Within this voyage of symbiotic relationship. A question, very often ponders upon. Who is the creator of everything? The majority say God. Do they then 'think' it is really God? If so, God is the  maintainer/provider and promoter of both perceived  positive/negative emotions and events within our being/surroundings. So, should events/reactions be revered/ridiculed than to be humbly receptive with prudence/elegance?  

utopiAn

    An idealistic/fascinating/optimal/guaranteed way of lifestyle could be deemed an utopian fantasy/way of life. Which is undertaken by some/reducled by most, very often linked to its logical impracticality, chained to complexity associated with homogeneity/heterogeneity of understandings/  undertakings.  What are the optimal challenges/opportunities in our AI era?

    When we have today 'the majority' mind set/politics rolled out with a 19th century outlook/mindset by its esteemed economic/commercial institutions,  being judicially/holistically promoted by its enlightened torchbearers. When in turmoil  to be deemed 'super' capitalist/socialist. Where are we today within our Utopian 'benchmark' of preserving/conserving our home planet. Meeting the basic aspirations of needs/wants for every citizens, than brushing it under the convenient ignorance of  your way/my way of life style in our rapidly transforming/evolving era of karma/change.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shanIOl7MyE

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6w3fWu7lqJo
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSD2WW8xieY
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kgtRq6Z9eI
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rmum7a2ln-E
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivrZMGK6cMw
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=si0uy6X0aF0  (Malayalam) 

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPnV8t2pcKw (Malayalam)
     https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFC2uw2lMLw

jErk

    There seems to be a thin line drawn up between our emotion/relation. So who qualify, to embrace the badge of honor, of an unceremonious title coined jerk? Very often, the recipient of the jerk honor to embrace it as a 'disrespectful'/heartless act. Then the next question evolves, why has respect to be earned/groomed? This question is left to once conscience/circumstances to evolve/blossom out from, into their Utopianism  .
    Holy jerks Vs shallow jerkys:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31qHa7pA9rw
    Status within vitreous institutions: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VpVHTRZD_e8
    A model tool to eliminate jerks (With subtitles): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOYiFgh9pWs

pAct

    The act with action on grooming out a personality,attitude with consistency,talent is known as a pact. Where 'the' Personality/Attitude/Consistency/Talent are its highlighted traits. Where does one stand within our pact of grooming in desired traits and trimming out the undesired?
    https://www.ted.com/.../anju_kadam_the_100.../transcript...
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xKXLPuju8U
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ETDaLMBhho
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jsZDlBU36n0
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDvskx1UkRw    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lB6K60mkmho
    A pact to survive/sustain:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEfpxiUIZPs
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5o-iaGFKxs
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfrG2bidW5g
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9UmdY0E8hU
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VpVHTRZD_e8
    

dEath

    'Destroyed ending a tormented hospitality' is the literal manifestation of the word death.
Illustrated by the classical metaphor of a seed being transformed into a fruit bearing mechanism. Where it has to decay/transform itself, to manifest into its designed intended potential optimality, within the limitations of its offered symbiotic relationship. Where death is symbolically the beginning of a new voyage/expression for solace. Some believe in a rebirth after once departure, rewarded based on the karmic cycle. Many heaven/hell , again being placed based on once deeds. A few believing in the ultimate delivering liberation, to be with the divine for ever.
Worth remembering the difference between ruthlessness/respect within our journey of life/death:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-G7zWaW_zD0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qj0NmP45vW8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBPwM1Takwg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQaLBjgAOnc
So:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY1ERM-NIBY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMYhgTgE6MU&index=4...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpIplIKq01U...
http://t.ted.com/3QRYWQY

mOral

    Moral implies morality in action/motion , not to be limited within its initial spark triggered as a taught/enlightening words. Now we seem to be surrounded by moral taughts being streamed out/promoted via esteemed institutions and its institutionalized moral torch bearers. What is their elicited way of life? When delivered by their groomed ignorant promoters, to define its qualitative understanding/undertaking to quantitative/majoritarianism opinions of impotency. What actions on its vitreous words are manifested by 'any' institutions/members on its/their established prime vision/mission statements?
    Morality challenges submerged within leading/parenting:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Krnq1wFsJmE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPTXkp4pPeI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSvLFPFXjc8
https://www.facebook.com/sibby.thomas/videos/1650698988363437/UzpfSTc3MDc0MzQ3NDoxMDE1NzY0NjM3Mzc0ODQ3NQ/ (FB:Malayalam)
   Moral policing is common within many nations. What is the literal meaning of morality!? Is it meant to be kind/generous/caring/accommodating or to be violent/punishing/brutal/vengeful!?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2vbs9ZppP4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2myXm6JLSg
https://www.facebook.com/yukthivaadi/videos/347912835788271/UzpfSTc3MDc0MzQ3NDoxMDE1NzYzMDI2NDkwMzQ3NQ/ (FB:Malayalam)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A45rpr3KLe8
    Morality for humanity in action, seeks dedication. Destruction, simple ignorance. 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siOh2Q0xG78
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKiGwUTf01I
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHzsmZ5t_K0...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWR5RT0ICtg
  A flashback on the past/present with time. When nationalism-Mine first Vs Patriotism-My ideology Vs Globalism- Our collective, is being classically misrepresented to reinvent the wheel, with our impractical economic undertaking/understandings to erupt out with frustrations/fears/uncertainties/violence.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1s5iz6ml-qA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtFWrvTNWLU

withIn

    Look within self! A statement casually/commonly made to each and every one. If  literally/physically probed any deeper, what can/will we find, apart from skin/muscles/organs/bones.  Which is meant to support/built/function collectively/symbiotically together. Recognized as an individual/person. What practical/useful relevance would it have, apart for a butcher/surgeon. 'Some' individuals are encouraged to develop a holistic goal/attitude within once approach to our immediate eco-system/individuals surrounding our current space.
    The ethos of within seems to encapsulate these trinities namely physical/mental/spiritual. Where each individual fragment within to behave as the collective together towards its aspiration needs/wants, very often circumstantially defined. Pasting within an interesting post.

Dear friends,

As I sat in the park after my morning walk, My wife came and slumped next to me. She had completed her 30-minute jog. We chatted for a while. She said she is not happy in life. I looked up at her sheer disbelief since she seemed to have the best of everything in life.
"Why do you think so?" "I don't know. Everyone tells I have everything needed, but I am not happy."Then I questioned myself, am I happy? "No," was my inner voice reply. Now, that was an eye-opener for me. I began my quest to understand the real cause of my unhappiness, I couldn't find one.

I dug deeper, read articles, spoke to life coaches but nothing made sense. At last my doctor friend gave me the answer which put all my questions and doubts to rest. I implemented those and will say I am a lot happier person.

She said there are four hormones which determine a human's happiness -
1. Endorphins,
2. Dopamine,
3. Serotonin, and
4. Oxytocin.
It is important we understand these hormones, as we need all four of them to stay happy.

Let's look at the first hormone the Endorphins. When we exercise, the body releases Endorphins. This hormone helps the body cope with the pain of exercising. We then enjoy exercising because these Endorphins will make us happy. Laughter is another good way of generating Endorphins. We need to spend 30 minutes exercising every day, read or watch funny stuff to get our day's dose of Endorphins.

The second hormone is Dopamine. In our journey of life, we accomplish many little and big tasks, it releases various levels of Dopamine. When we get appreciated for our work at the office or at home, we feel accomplished and good, that is because it releases Dopamine. This also explains why most housewives are unhappy since they rarely get acknowledged or appreciated for their work. Once, we join work, we buy a car, a house, the latest gadgets, a new house so forth. In each instance, it releases Dopamine and we become happy. Now, do we realize why we become happy when we shop?

The third hormone Serotonin is released when we act in a way that benefits others. When we transcend ourselves and give back to others or to nature or to the society, it releases Serotonin. Even, providing useful information on the internet like writing information blogs, answering peoples questions on Quora or Facebook groups will generate Serotonin. That is because we will use our precious time to help other people via our answers or articles.

The final hormone is Oxytocin, is released when we become close to other human beings. When we hug our friends or family Oxytocin is released. 

So, it is simple, we have to exercise every day to get Endorphins,
we have to accomplish little goals and get Dopamine,
we need to be nice to others to get Serotonin and
finally hug our kids, friends, and families to get Oxytocin and we will be happy. When we are happy, we can deal with our challenges and problems better.

Now, we can understand why we need to hug a child who has a bad mood.

So to.make your child more and more happy day by day.

1.Motivate him to play on the ground -Endorphins

2. Appreciate your child for his small big achievements- Dopamine

3.Inculcate sharing habit through you to your child - Serotonin

4. Hug your child -Oxytocin.

It seems, what we put within/surround our self with, to end up being our fate/destiny at large.

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFsBmJP1Yyw
 https://www.apost.com/…/the-9-types-of-pain-that-are-…/8100/